Confidence

Confidence

Hey everyone, if you read my new years resolution post(woop if you did) you would have seen that one of them was too boost my confidence- when I was reading other peoples post I saw confidence come up quite a few times too.

 

It seems to me that everyone in our society has this 'perfect image' in their heads. A certain way that people now a days think you have too look to be seen as attractive or beautiful or be noticed by another human being.

 

I myself have felt this way for a long time.. I've thought I was fat because I wear a size 8-10 or get a few spots, or not having a thigh gap or not having that long hair that goes past your chest.

 

You do not need to be a size 4-6-8 to be seen as skinny, you don't need to have that thigh gap or have your bones sticking out. When I asked my step brother if he likes it when girls bones stick out he said no; bones aren't attractive. If you start getting spots don't worry about it, its all part of growing up and everyone you meet will get spots too.

 

 

 

So that boy you really like doesn't like you back.. or hasn't said your pretty or complemented you on your looks. He's probably too shy to confront you or innocently wants to be your friend, nothing else. Don't start to wear more and more makeup everyday  to impress him because its better to be natural than cover the real you up. I wear makeup to school because it makes me feel more comfortable in my appearance, however I don't overdo my makeup.

 

 

So what you eat 3 meals a day and a snack at your break time at school. That doesn't make you fat or greedy.  Don't be afraid to eat in front of boys either, eating is natural everyone does it. If you want to lose weight then simply exercise or don't eat as much chocolate(as tempting as it is). You don't need to starve yourself to lose weight or throw up your food after eating because you feel guilty. Most girls starve because things get out of control and they get such low self confidence. 

 

Once you have called a girl fat that phrase will stick in her head, forever. She will look at herself and see the complete opposite because you called her fat and she is not, she'll starve, sometimes things go too far and people end up very ill.

 

'PERFECT IMAGE/BODY FIGURE' THIS DOES NOT EXIST!! Nobody has the perfect image or body figure nobody in this world is perfect. Everybody has a different interpretation of the 'perfect image' there is not a law or rule that has said you must look this way or have this body figure to be perfect. Sadly our cold blooded society today has built an image that young girls feel that they have to look like.

 

 

Jennifer Lawrence doesn't wear a size 4/6/8 however she's still beautiful. She doesn't have a thigh gap but I bet nearly everyone reading this thinks she gorgeous.

Jennifer is evidence that you do not have to starve or be as skinny as others to be seen as pretty.

 

Everybody is beautiful. Its not that you that's ugly its society.

 

Thankyou for reading, I know this was long and most of you probably thought this was boring. However low confidence is something I suffer with and I get very annoyed when girls think they have to look a certain way to be beautiful because you don't. 

High five if you read till the end without skipping any parts!! I really hope this helps you realise there isn't a perfect image.

 

 

I will upload a more beauty related video this weekend, I just though confidence is not spoke about enough and wanted to put this all out there.

 

Byee xo

 

P.S I hope you all enjoy me new blog layout it has took me ages!