Hey lovelies!
Every girl dreads that time of the month, the seven days of pain, sometimes excruciating pain if you're unlucky like me. Not forgetting that you have to rock the classic granny pants for the week, forget wearing your Victoria Secret underwear. This is the time to indulge in food, because lets face it your periods already made you bloated so the rest of the chocolates won't hurt, right? Oh I know how you feel when you say you just want to curl into a ball and be alone because if you're forced into a social situation you will most likely snap someones head off. This doesn't mean that if we're snappy with you boys we're having a period. We do just have general shitty days when we're off our periods too. And I will tell you know if you say to a girl ' jhz someones on their period ' I kid you not, you have just pissed her right off. Just don't do it. I know when it's my time of the month, the best thing for me is to run myself a hot bubble bath and shut off from the world for a bit.
Girls are known for being emotional, but it doesn't make you weak or unstable. We all have those days when we just want to cry out our emotions, with no actual reason to be crying. Sometimes the smallest comment can leave us in tears. Don't worry I feel you. I usually let myself cry instead of holding the tears back because the more you hold the emotion in, the more it builds up. It's okay to cry, you'll probably sit and cry for a little while but then you'll wake up the next morning and won't even think anything of it. Never feel stupid if you want to ask for help or want somebody to comfort you, because if they really care they'd be there for you no matter what.
I love food. Something I'm sure a lot of you can relate too. Half of my money goes on food. I don't regret any of it. Yet I'm always still hungry. Like most other young girls or women I worry about my weight, how others look at me and I'm always upset about how I don't have the 'perfect figure'. But do you know what, if you want to get a McDonalds, treat yourself. Stop worrying about if you'l be judged. This summer I decided to ditch all these negative thoughts and think more positively. You won't get anywhere by staring at yourself in the mirror and picking apart your body. Who cares what others think of you. If they can't see past how much you weigh, then they're not worth the time of day. You should feel comfortable with your body no matter how big or small you are, because you're you. And that makes you so beautiful, and always remember there isn't anybody like you in this world. You're your own person. You shouldn't spend all your time worrying about whether or not you're fat or if whether or not people find you attractive because you have stretch marks. I don't understand why so many young girls and women are ashamed of their stretch marks?! They're beautiful. So many mums wear their stretch marks with pride as a result of carrying their child. Just because you gained yours from puberty doesn't mean they become gross or ugly. Confidence is such a beautiful characteristic to have, you should be confident and not feel ashamed of loving of your body. You go girl. You rock that dress and heels.
Kiera xo
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